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Diary and struggles of a decent girl: Virgin Lady opens up on difficulties of getting a boyfriend


Hi, my name is (Kemi/Amina/Amaka) I’m a Decent Girl but I’m having so much trouble getting a guy, it is so hard for me, I have to look in the mirror to see if there’s a problem somewhere. I feel the runs Girls have taken over.

Let me tell you about myself…

1. Have less than 500 followers on Instagram with a minimum of 30 – 50 likes, 18 views for videos, 3 comments from colleagues, sister and cousins.

2. No guy drops Provocative or Dashing comments on my page (No Slay Queen, Osee Baddest, ?, ?, ? Pepper them)

3. I don’t post twerking videos (i don’t even know how to twerk)

4. I attend church frequently even mid week service too

5. Since I joined IG only 3 guys have jumped in my DM. 2 were my former neighbors and 1 guy who mistook me for someone else

LMAO Checkout This Funny Reply To A Question On Twitter

6. I am celibate, a virgin or won’t let you get down in 5 months

7. Anytime I tell guys I’m celibate or a virgin they look at me like they want to beat me up

8. I attended 4 weddings in 2016 and I got only 2 numbers, the guys I met when I told them I was a virgin or I had a no sex in 5 months dating policy they didn’t call me after

9. My makeup is decent, not pancakes and pinocchio contour

10. I don’t like to expose my body when I go out I believe beauty is from within. I don’t do long slits or expose my boobs

11. I don’t really go to the club, work doesn’t let me and my parents are strict. My TGIF is my laptop and Game of Thrones or Designated Survivor

Nigerian Lady Holds On To The Brake Of A Bus For The Driver To Fight An 'Agbero'

12. No Guy Has put me as #WCW

Despite all these good qualities I have that my friends and family always call me iyawo material, I can’t even get a text back or cinema date.

Meanwhile my friends (Uche, Tolu, Turia) who are the opposite of me and slay on IG, 9k followers, 25 Body count, Awards winning twerkers, Pinocchio contour, change boyfriends every week, anytime i watch their snap I ask myself are we not in the same Lagos/Abuja/PH/London/DC together?

Dear Joro, is being decent now a crime? Do I have to change my personality and self before I can meet a man? I’m really lonely.



  1. If guys leave you because you are a virgin, then they are not the right person for you. Virgnity is a valuable treasure, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

  2. See, no matter wat girl, keep ur virginity intact. Dont give it to any man. Give to ur Mr Right. Some men r here to just use virgins nd dump them. So dont be among the dumped virgins. Your Mr Right will come soon. Be patient

  3. If u bothered yourself about having bf d real guy won’t come your way… Focus yourself on what God av for you surely He ll give a responsible n God fearing guy.

  4. A guy who loves U will stay in rship with U whether ur giving him sex or not and any guy who leave U be cos of sex clearly don’t deserve U and not in love with U.. Be yourself. The right man who love you for who you are will stay.


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