Wow! It looks like a simple choice, but, it’s actually hard.
A distraught 21 years old Nigerian lady, has found herself in a really disturbing situation. She shared her story with us, this lady, who has been dating a guy for months now, found out by her friend, that he’s a married man.
I met this cute adorable guy and we started dating it few months now… and I noticed his behavior when he travels that he hardly pick my calls and I complained about it but he always tell me he’s in a meeting or court. After some time, while i was cleaning his place, I saw a pic of him with a lady in a wedding grown, I was confused because he never told me he was married but only about his ex-girlfriends. So I asked him if he was married when he return from work but he said he isn’t and when the pic was showed to him he said that his cousin mixed the pic cause he’s into graphics and he’s still learning that I should look very well at the pic then I will know it’s fake.. he got emotional saying that his cousin uses his pic most times and that he’s been warning him about doing such.
When I was still doubting it, he showed me another pic with another lady which the cousin also mixed like a traditional wedding pic so it was easy to believe him…..few days after this, his friend came visiting, (that’s my boyfriend’s friend) and spent the night, the next day my boyfriend traveled leaving me with his friend. His friend was supposed to leave that day too but didn’t leave, he started telling me how he’s sexually attracted to me and that he can’t help it that he wants us to have sex….I boldly refused him saying how much I loved his friend and wouldn’t want to betray him, at some point he stopped disturbing for a while and as we kept talking and getting to know each other, he disclosed to me that my boyfriend was married with kids.
At first it was difficult to believe cause he looked too young to be married left alone with two kids but he showed me the pic and video of his family and said he didn’t want to lie to me that truly my boyfriend was married. I broke down emotionally..how could he look at his wife pic and still deny her? He got uncomfortable with my behaviour and left, but before he left he told me that he too was also married and I should take it easy when confronting my boyfriend that he must have had a good reason to keep it away from me because he’s bin telling him how much he loves me.
My supposed bf is coming back soon I don’t know what to say or do to him. Please I need your advice.
Good morning…. According to her the guy even promised to take her to see his people. My friend has been crying since yesterday when she called me to come visit her. Can’t even leave her cause I fear she might hurt herself.
The only reason why her boyfriend told her about it was that she was too faithful and had plan of settling down with the Guy…..it was difficult for him but he felt bad for my girlfriend because she was too deep in the relationship without knowing the truth and he also told her she’s too young to worry about relationship. My friend is 21 and this is her second relationship she really wanted it to be the last. I don’t even know the right advice to give to her right now. Please help her.